July is Fibroid Awareness Month

Cherise’s Story

It was either late 2002 or early 2003 when I learned I had a uterine fibroid. I went to the doctor about the heavy bleeding and bad cramps I suffered monthly. I remember it clearly, the doctor said, “Oh, the tumor is probably bigger.”

“What tumor?” I asked with some concern.

Instead of answering me, the doctor just looked at me with wide eyes and left the room. I then remembered having an ultrasound some years prior to the 2002/2003 visit, but I don’t remember anyone explaining to me that I had a fibroid tumor. There had been no discussion about options for management or healing.

It was at the latest appointment that the option of hysterectomy was mentioned. Given I was tired, physically and emotionally… that various family members had had hysterectomies… and that I was over 40 with a child who was 17… I shrugged and planned for surgery. With no upcoming plans for my uterus, my main concerns were how long would I be off work and how I would pay my bills. Once those issues were squared away, the surgery was set for late March 2003.

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On the day of the surgery, my grandmother, sister, daughter, and cousin Melva were at the hospital to support me. I was shaking off the effects of the anesthesia, when Melva announced, “They had to take one of your ovaries. The fibroid was so big it was fused to it.” I recall something about a grapefruit, but I can’t remember which ovary they took.

Even now the language of “taking” the uterus and ovary causes me to feel some kind of way. Had I known earlier about the fibroid, could I have done something differently to shrink the tumor or at least delay the surgery? Not knowing about the fibroid somehow denied me a choice. While I fully understand the decision to “take” the ovary, there is a feeling of loss. Again, a loss of choice and a loss of knowing.

Since my daughter was diagnosed with a fibroid in 2017, I’ve read that several women are dealing with the condition. Thankfully, assisting these women are more physicians offering options other than hysterectomy. It’s the options for me!

7 Ways to Break Down Mental Health Stigmas | USA Fibroid Centers

Fibroids Take A Toll On Your Mental Health — The Atlanta Fibroid Clinic

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